This may sound harsh, but I was that baby sister once. And the only thing that saved me was that my family COMPLETELEY cut me off. They took my children, legally. Not as hard as it sounds. And they did not help me with anything, not even food. They had given everything for me, and I was going to lose my life. They gave me a gift, by finally not giving me anything else.
I am going through this with my son now. And I told him today I would let him be homeless before I gave him another cent, but I also let him know that as long as he would go to the clinic the hospital set up for him, I would change his oil in his car and take him to the food bank. I have enough money to help him, and this is killing me. But I want him to live, and to me, that means cutting him off................ because my parents and family cutting me off saved my life. God bless you. I promise to keep you, your sister, and family in my prayers. God does work miracles.