Originally Posted by
LostSister 
I had though about Alanon for us as a family but the problem is we all live so far apart. Different sides of the world at the moment!
Do you think it would be just as useful to go seperately if we can't go as a family?
Absolutely go to AlAnon by yourself. And if you think it will help, individual therapy. Reading in here and books will help you understand what you are dealing with. I found individual therapy works wonders for me.
You can suggest your parents also go. But that is up to them. One thing I've learned is that sometimes the best I can do is point out the resources to people and leave them with the choice of using those resources or not.