((lggirl)))
I think maybe you need to put this in perspective.
Right now all he can handle is working on HIM.
Meanwhile, you are going to Alanon and working on you.
It's really NOT a bad thing. It may be a sad time, cause you really want to know how he's doing, and let him know you support him. If you both love each other, I'm sure he knows that.
In the long run, this may be a small price to pay for him to lead a life of recovery. Cause recovery is hard.
I'm happy for him that he is abiding by the rules of his rehab that's a great sign.
Hugs,