I can only tell you that your not the only person who has been up all night wondering what, where and who they are with, I have been there with you at some point in time and when my ah came home he acted like what are you so upset about?.
The only thing I can say is what i told my ah is that when he does that he needs to pick up a phone and call me to tell me he's ok and then just hang up on me,This way i know he's alive and i'm not sitting there all night wondering.
:ghug