I am so glad you are able to talk with your Mom. I am sure that she misses you, too. There is nothing more important to a Mother than her children, and when circumstances get in the way of them being together, everyone feels it.
You actually sound much happier than you used to, Sadness. We might have to change your name!
Bowling is a great idea. It's fun and gives your meeting a focus other than just talking. It will help you build a fresh new relationship with your Mom and Step Dad based on fun, positive things.
Speaking of your Step Dad, cut him a little slack for a while....watch out for expectations. Remember that he has never had a teen-age daughter before..... It may take him a little while to get comfortable with the new situation.
Good luck, Sadness. Keep us posted on how it goes.
Mwah!
Babs