KJ - you have helped me today. My AH enters rehab tomorrow, and I, too, am jumping in to the future. I know I can't solve his problems and am working on letting go and letting god take care of mine.
In my purse I have a "just for today" bookmark and wanted to share it with you - I have read it a couple times to myself today already -
"Just for today I will try to live through this day only, and not tackle my whole life problem at once. I can do something for 12 hours that would appal me if I felt that I had to keep it up for a lifetime."