drained.................you said yourself in one of your earlier posts that he will find a way not to go for the followup tests and such..................
and flipping out or picking a fight....well thats typical behavior
try to stay calm and not react, however be careful because he may get worse TRYING to get a reaction from you.................
my question for you is...............are you sick and tired of this type of thing from him yet? And are you ready to walk away?
because over time and reading your posts...............it really sounds like thats what it is going to take for you and your children to be ok..............
you will be in my thoughts!!!!