It is challenging. I have been dating someone for a little while. I did let the kids finally meet him twice after 10 months. They behaved so badly it was unreal. After that, we have not participated jointly in anything. I'm told to wait, be patient.. that over time he'll come around... in the meantime - we spend every other weekend with HIS kids. I'm not going to be unfair to mine... but I am not really ready to jump full fledge into anything either. I do tell my boys that I don't have a boyfriend.
I have also scheduled some counseling sessions for my 11 yo. He seems to be going through the most at this point. After we get going good with him.. then I'll start the twins...
I'm just getting blah.