No the abf did not come. I helped her carry some bags out to his car when he came to pick her up and I wished him a Happy Thanksgiving. But he buys her drugs and so one boundary that I will not cross is having any kind of relationship with him. I will not give her the impression that it is okay to be with him although I can accept that she is where she wants to be right now. When I was helping her with the bags, she told me that Steve would probably sh*t his pants when he saw me coming out. I told her to relax. I am through trying to force consequences on them, they are doing just fine all by themselves. We both laughed. Hugs, Marle