I agree.
I'm struggling to get a few days sober myself and AA isn't for me - just because I don't like it.
It's not for me, I'm not a "joiner" (or a carpenter) - and I accept that may be part of the problem.
However, I think there are other ways apart from AA and I don't think that being "secular" means being "anti-AA".
This is a really big world and there is room for people who are AA and secular or people who are non-AA and "religious" . But personally I prefer the secular forum because I don't want to get swamped in AA rhetoric. We're all struggling together.
Jane xx