((( khrea))) I am not sure what the rules are when dealing with a minor... but I would most likely say HANDS OFF THE ADDICT. Let him deal with his own consequences. When my son was out doing his research, I told myself over and over again that he had some important life lessons to learn, and they weren't from me. That allowed me to detach a little bit and allow his life to unfold without my "help".
Be extra gentle with yourself today.
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