I'm in AA and i'm ACOA.
It's more then fair for her , it's also healthier.
It's bascailly what normal people do is date for years and just
get to know one other. You can't get to know her , if she dosn't
know who she is.
I think a lot of our problems comes from expecting our partners
to be a certain way. What our perceptions of a relationship
should be when we go beyound the dating stage.
We start taking people for granted once we get owned.lol
Our attitude change...slowly.
When dating, there's boundaires and a lot more respect
for one another.
anyway, you can't make promises , even if you're seriously
together..alki, acoc or normies.