Sure hes angry he didnt get his own way. That's okay! You need to take care of yourselves. Everday this week I get a nasty phone call from my son. When I tell him to figure it out he hangs up. It is out of desperation, and manipulation he is doing this. I am learning we will always love them we just dont have to love them in our home. Learning not to be co-dependent is one of the most difficult things in the world I was a pro at it.