Originally Posted by
GiveLove 
He's not getting away with anything that he hasn't already gotten away with. Life will catch up with him in its proper time.
Oh yes.. I SOOO AGREE. I decided last night writing all that stuff that I am not going to send him anymore bills.
The fact that life will catch up with him someday is the thing that allows me to let go. As I have said here before, and to paraphrase one of my favorite books of all time, Lonesome Dove (Larry McMurtry) about not following revenge or allowing the actions of someone destroy your life because we don't NEED to do it: "You don't need to do this. One of his own will shoot him or a horse will fall on him or he will just get old and die..."
Time takes care of time. I need to take care of me. This foolishness (on my part last night) is simply a reminder to me to do just THAT!
Thanks for the hugs. I am at work and Oliver can't be here to give me his kitty hugs!
