Hope everyone is doing ok. I don't get on here as much as I used to, they blocked us from getting on forums at work... imagine that! LOL I'm doing good, my kids keep me busy, not much to report with AH at the moment. He's still on the write me stuff. I sent a letter & picture from his daughter and an email poem I printed out for him. I didn't enclose a personal note and he went on & on about that, and I stuck to my boundary and hung up on him, again. He still doesn't get it.
My oldest daughter shared with me her feelings about her dad coming home. (She's 16, and has not wrote, visited, or talked to her dad while in prison.) She's scared of him. Not for herself, but she's scared for me. We were able to talk, and I shared with her it's not going to be like before. I'm not hiding behind fear or shame of anyone finding out he's on drugs. If he does drugs again, he'll be out of here, with assistance if necessary. Thats my new boundary and I feel good about it!