It's hard for tone of voice to come across well in text, so I'll state that my tone of voice is not confrontational when I ask the question I'm about to ask, but one of concern and caring.
Do you give to yourself as much love as you give to others? Do you love yourself as much as you love others? If the answer to either of those questions is "no", then you must first learn to love yourself before others will be able to love you in equal shares.