Never,
I hope you're doing better. I think about you every time I pop on here, and hope you're learning things about yourself that are helping you grow. I know that it made all the difference in the world for me, and I only wish MY mom had had the strength to get help.
You're a helluva smart woman, and I know YOU know the nature and the risk of public online forums...we all have the responsibility for "taking what we need and leaving the rest" or else we'll all go cuckoo. The writer of the offending post is human and fallible, has apologized ten ways to Sunday and left the forum, and it would be great if we could just move on, in my humble opinion.
Love and hugs to you
GL