yeah, I'm in the minority, too. I think his ability to find and keep a job would be a HUGE step forward. I don't know his history, so if he has had problems with pornography in the past, then I would have a different opinion.
I really like that you talked to him about his choice and how he will deal with his emotions. That seems like a positive way to handle the situation. I stuggle with my alanon program, but I wonder if you are judging his choice based on your values and morals.
I'm not advocating pornography, but a stable job can do wonders for someone's self esteem and recovery.