so you know I love ya and care so I guess I just have one question that you have to answer......who are you trying to impress????
at home you can leave it alone................why not out in public......come right out and say hey I am an alcoholic I would appreciate it if you didn't offer the drinks to me cuse I'll take em and that makes you a problem......you stand up to you hon and you have the back bone in which to stand up FOR you!
It does get better