What do you want to achieve? If it's sobriety you need to say goodbye to certain things for a while...you can meet up at alternative places for now if you like their company...but sobriety (if that's what you want) involved sacrifices, sometimes we have to give up our old friends/pastimes ALTOGETHER - not always though...but certainly IF you want to be sober you need to make sacrifices certainly at the beginning. good luck!! I think your first task needs to be what you really really want first of all - the rest will come quite easily if you REALLY decide what you REALLY want!?
good luck!!
cathy31
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