No words. Hate that it happened to him and to you. Just hate that it happened.
Gosh girl.. you have seen enough .
I am so very sorry. I had a boss once with BiPolar and I am certain his other problem was addiction. I had a husband who was terribly depressed and his other probelm was addiction. Mental illness or chemical problems in the brain can lead to self medication and often that is with some drug that is addictive (alcohol and all the other stuff).
Just sending you support, love and hugs cuz I am sure you need that.
(((((Barbdee)))))