(((Rozied))))
When my oldest A was in prison the 1st time, I sent money for his books, and care packages...well, heck, I sent the works.
The 2nd time, I didn't send any money, but did send envelopes and paper.
The 3rd time I sent nothing.
Unfortunately he may be returning there soon, and I will send nothing, and I will block my phone for collect calls, they cost me $60 a month or more when he starts his calling.
It seems that my son has taken up the Prison tattoo profession and makes quite a bit of money. Believe me, they generally find their way, Rozied....
I feel it was a big mistake sending my son money, and care packages...it was like he was away at college or something. Not suffering the consequences of his actions.
Doing nothing is a good thing!
Hugs to you,