Yes Angel it is hard for me also to stay out of it. I just want to shake her. He seems like a really nice guy. I hope for her she didn't mess this up. I know she would kick herself if she did.....but I can't do anything about that now can I. Ohhh, I can't stand myself always trying to fix things when I know I can't. Even if I can I have to stop, stop, stop. Stop this dysfunctional way of thinking. I was doing pretty well, so I thought. This is her slip...not mine. Keep telling myself this is hers to own..... this is hers to own..... this is hers to own.
My biggest fear is that she will take up a drinking habit now. Fear, fear , fear. I am so tired of the fear.
Thanks for letting me vent Heather.