Lobo-
I am glad that your daughter is okay.
You are a mother and you reacted like one -- I also think that when our ALO is doing well and we feel proud of them - even if we try not to, we develop a drop of expectation or tie some hope to their recovery and when they do something contrary to that we may fly into codie mode and feel angry at their behavior and just disappointed. This is so hard for me - letting someone make their mistakes and own them without putting myself in the equation.