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Old 10-18-2007, 08:36 AM
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Done_With_It
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It may not be anything. Let her decide what it is. Although it's common for people to switch drugs, not everyone does.
Also most people don't realize what alcohol and meds do to each other. They are a powerful mix that you sometimes have to find out on your own.
Odds are she is going to be humiltiated already.
This might not be everything falling apart overnight.
The one thing I DO know is that YOU don't have to fall apart. This is her stuff, stuff she has to go through and learn to deal with, she's still going to make mistakes but that doesn't mean it's back to where it was.

Just let her be where she needs to be and do what she needs to do.
But don't let where she is dictate where you are.

And go have a beautiful day, draw from the place that you moms do
and be strong....

I know easier said that done...

But let her spread her winds and just watch her learn how to fly...
She's just going to have to learn to do it, and as long as she's
out there trying she's going to make mistakes....
Hopefully she will learn from this stand up dust herself off and move
forward.....

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