yes and no.
Yes it takes time to heal, but unfortunately for me time by time along
wasn't enough. It took me two years for to even to start processing my
divorce. It took me around another two years to process the lost
of my children. It took me 11 years of being clean and sober and a
relasped to knock me on my knees to consider looking into codependency
and another year to look into ACOA.
You would think a person like me would live alone, becuase i live a lonely
life or i felt alone even when there were people in my life. The longest time
I've ever lived alone in my entire life was only 6 months.
I'm saying ...my own place, single, no room mates or relationships.
I bacailly would be afraid of living alone, alone and put up with the chaos
instead. It was one of my biggest fears I had to overcome.
But in that process I gain myself back and i learned how to live with
me. And yes, for a while, i was going through that lonely stages of
wanting someone to cry on my shoulder ( i'm a guy) The problem is....
I like the crazy ones or have a radar out for only particular type of
women. It can be any women...just as long she acts a certain way.lol
My idea of the perfect woman is unhealthy.
So i had to learned to love myself and it takes time.