Apparently they go to my house.
nawwwwwww I'm just kidding, I'm sorry.
I'll go stand in the corner now
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Seriously......our addicts are fairly adept at taking care of themsleves. How else could they manage their choice of lifestyle for as long as they do? I was always very good at 'conjuring" up situations and places my son might be in, somtimes I was right, most times I was wrong. In retrospect I wonder why i tortured myself so hard.
Also I read this article once about controlling our own emotional well being and for every negative situation we imagine we should imagine two wonderful situations or outcomes because anything is possible.
I went a little sideways on this subject, I'll double my time in the corner ok?
hugs
sigh