Permission
Diva,
One other thought I'd like to share - I tried so hard with my last ex- to make sure all was smooth. But one thing I realized was that the A was never going to give me permission - to be healthy, sane, independent, to get away in one piece. I was going to have to take these things for myself. I was so sad that it had to be so hard, but Meg says it so well -
You are exactly where you need to be right now. And you are making progress towards a re-covered you. We are recoveing ourselves from being lost as much as from our own illness.
Again, peace my dear.
Petunia