Pernell,
I think I'm the love addict with my husband and the love aviodant with my boyfriend. Is that possible? I know I shouldn't have gotten involved in a relationship until I finished the marriage but it was something that just happened.
I did go out yesterday and bought the book you recommended and 3 more. Facing Love Addiction, Letting Go by Melody Beattie, Additive Thinking, and Meditations for People Who Worry To Much. I really am determined to live a happy and normal life. I've realized this is so hard for me because I always thought that I was living a normal life, I didn't know any different. Since I've been away from my A I've gotten small glimpes of normal is and I want that kind of life.
Thank You for all your support and help.
Galnva