hi all. Just thought I would keep you posted. My ex is still clean and still living on my couch. He's still pissed that we aren't in a sexual relationship but what can I say, I'm just not that into him anymore. Plus he treated me like absolute crap before he went to prison. We were pretty much over then.
He doesn't have to check in with parole at all. He doesn't have to pee in a cup. Or anything. I was extremely disapointed about that as I told the people who came to my house that I wanted him in a recovery program if he was going to come back and live with me. They said that he would have to be in one but they were full of it. I guess all they care about is getting them out of overcrowded jails. Then they become our problem.
Anyway, he's doing ok. He reminds me of a sulky teenager most days. He has made contact with many of his old friends. He's not hanging out with the ones who used, but if he got a wild hair he would have easy access to drugs.
Anyway, that's the scoop.