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Old 09-11-2007, 12:38 AM
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You are braver than I was, Ray, I just could not face going through it again, and with every day that passes, I am more and more sure that I made the right decision.

I answered the phone the other day without checking the caller ID, and it was my X. Crap! Usually I just don't care to talk to him and that day was no exception. Anyhow, I talked with him for a few minutes, and his old patterns emerged immediately. He only calls me when he wants something and then he tries to manipulate me with guilt when I politely decline. I couldn't wait to get off the phone. He is still in exactly the same place spiritually.

He still sees it as ME abandoning HIM! It is still all about poor, poor, him.....

Keep us posted on your decision. I may be a cynic, but you really sound like you are happier without him, and are thinking of letting him come home because he has made you feel guilty. I hope whatever decision you make is for Y-O-U! Because it is right for YOU. Because it is what YOU want for YOUR life.

Good luck, Girlfriend.
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