Dakota, Glad things are going well for you. (I read your last post before the site crashed and it was lost.)
And Babs, I read yours also about the quest and how you never want to go back to the way things were a year ago. I don't either, and I think that is why I'm having such a tough time with my agreement to let AH have "one last chance". I can see a change in him, his family that visits him does too. Time will tell, but I am no longer a doormat, so we'll see how it works out or doesn't come Jan.