MG- Say it ain't so. 12 years! I am only on 1 1/2 (3 if I am honest with myself about lack of connection with the exa) I do like myself and with the work I have been doing with the 12 steps and Dr. Phil's help, hope to eventually love myself, but what good will it do if I end up alone anyway. I guess Marvin the Bloodhound better live a LOOONNNNGGGGG life so I have some companionship.