Kris, I have done the isolation thing so much that I have no friends. The few I managed to hang on to for a little while I kind of ran off so my husbands addiction couldnt hurt them the way it has been hurting me. He pretty much throws a fit if I try to go do anything without him anyway. Really embarrassing, but what can I do? Nothing right now. Amazingly there are a few things I do enjoy doing with my husband but here lately we fight so much there is no time for those things. Most of the time when things are quiet around the house, he is watching tv or playing video games while I have my nose in a book.