Originally Posted by
maddie82 If I kick him out and something happens I'll feel responsible b/c I'm the one that let him come back up here. I let him leave Florida.
Whoaa...back up that codie bus Maddie.
You gave him opportunity, with responsibility. He broke the deal.
You are not responsible.
But I know how I felt with my son, who after quite a few stumbles and falls, finally got back on solid ground and as far as I know, hasn't used heroin in over two years.
I saw progress...I stuck it out. It was VERY hard though, and probably would have been easier on me had I not had to witness the falls.
We do what we can when we can. If you can't find it in yourself to kick him out, maybe give it a week, with no promises, but he may want to set up a plan B in regards to his living arrangements.
They taught me here that when you have no idea what to do, doing nothing is OK for right now.
Prayers for peace, wisdom and clarity for the both of you
(((Hugs)))
Cece