Thank you all!
I rarely post here, but rerad often, and when I post I want to hear your perspectives. Even if it is not what I want to hear. There is no point to post and then get offended with things that are pointed out to me from the supporters perspective.
Harmoney has returned to our home. All issuews around the children are not resolved, but steadily and calmly we will adress them. That is how a marriage works isn't it.
My wife is not the greatest communicator, and so sometimes it takes a bit of a blow up for me to understandf where she is at. She chooses not to go to any support meetings etc, which is her choice.
My programme of recovery has really helped me to get to that core of selfishness that underlies addiction. I believe as long as I continue to change that part of me, our relationship will blossom and grow. She stuck with me through the insanity of addiction. I know her love for me is strong. She is a wonderful, beautiful caring woman. I am grateful I chose her as my life partner.
Thanks for all your kindness and insight.