Pretending all was well.
CEGirl...I pretended I wasn't pretending. How confusing is that? Major denial and constantly rationalizing his behaviour. Eventually, I started getting stomach aches when I was around him and it was harder to ignore those.
Keeping...you know he's drinking. The elephant has taken up permanent residence in the corner. Half-empty bottles are your proof. Put your boundaries in place and confront him. Do it for you!
ARL