Originally Posted by
keepingmyjoy 
He must be that desperate to hide the drinking from me.
I would say so, because--
Originally Posted by
keepingmyjoy I told him that he will lose everything if he does not stop as I will leave etc.
So, it seems the ball is in your court. You know he hasn't stopped, he thinks he has you fooled, so was that a boundary you intended to follow through with, or an idle threat? (BTW, idle threats tend to cause the kind of behavior you are describing.)
All this is said with compassion, for I have lived through the very same situation and did not follow through until one day I had enough. And someday you will reach that point, too.
L