Call the jail and tell them that there is a scum bag in thier facility that is calling your number attempting to make a collect cals to your phone and harrass you. Tell them you do not wish to have any contact with said a-hole. Maybe they can stop it or tell you how to stop it. Its your phone number, you pay for it, you have rights too. If that does not work restrict your number from collect calls by calling phone company and problem solved until he gets out. Besides in todays society who really uses collect calls anyway. I agree with what Marle said. Personally I would only tell her if she can handle it. If it is going to screw her head up, dont tell her. It is good to be honest but we all know people have triggers. AD may find out soon enough but only after he is out and makes contact. By then maybe she will be able to handle herself and tell him to pi$$ off.