Originally Posted by
CrushedbyCrack 
givelove,
Maybe I wasn't clear with the consequence, because I know what it should be, and that I'm not ready to enforce that yet.
That seems true, Crushed. I was intrigued by what lightseeker said above...about not living together (not breaking up, and still being supportive, but not living together any more) That seems sane. When you are ready, you will know it. I just hope it doesn't take you as long, and hope you don't have to suffer as much as I did, before you reach that point. (That's always our hope, isn't it?) The things I allowed to happen damaged me badly, and it took many years to feel happy again.
Addiction is a progressive disease. Take care to protect yourself from it.