Hey Smoke
She that sitteth on the skillet for too long, doth burneth herself...
I too am painfully discovering how hard it
is to keep that 'money' thing in perspective where the addicted other-half is concerned.
I am on the point of cutting ALL financial ties - I keep telling myself that's just
numbers, he is still my husband and I will always love him etc.etc.
Can I borrow an expletive from your cat for both of us?
Hang Fire
FATCAT