That sort of raging behavior was a pretty good sign my kid was not clean... or was thinking VERY hard about going back out.
I found that I could not live with the day to day chaos of active addiction. There are half-way houses and sober houses... both my kids went into an Oxford house following a 30-day rehab. Even if that wasn't "the" time for each of them, it got the chaos away from us and made it THEIR problem, and not ours.
I love my kids... but I could not show that love while they were still doing crazy addict things in my home.
I wish you well.