I'm so sorry. The last time we left our home, we did have to let our son know if he even came on our property we would call the police. He tried to get his sister to let him come over but she held her ground, knowing we meant it. He never came by. It's so hard, but what they're doing to themselves and the ones they love is harder. You have my empathy............do what you need to do for your sanity and stay grounded as much as possible.......not an easy task sometimes
Love,
Bets