I was almost too embarrassed to post again. I held out until about 8 pm tonight. I called the manager or the sober house on his cell phone. I've spoken with him several times and I believed he would tell me the truth about how much it would cost to get him back in. I didn't get the answer I expected. He told me how much and then told me that he didn't want to take my money because it would be a waste since abf didn't want to be there anymore. He wouldn't go so far as to tell me to take him back but he said that now that abf isn't physically addicted anymore he needs to find out what will work for him for the rest of his life and Florida wasn't it. He said he'd hate to see him end up on the street after doing so well for the past 3 months.
I gave in. He's coming back. Please don't judge me. I just felt so exhausted and so drained like I couldn't fight it anymore. I so appreciate everything you guys said and I feel like I let people down. Speaking with the manager made me feel hopeful but I'm anxious. I thought I was doing so well detaching from his problems. I hope I haven't made a horrible mistake. Thanks to everyone for calming me down last night.