Originally Posted by devastated
You can't even take this cheating personal because if he wasn't doing drugs he wouldn't be cheating on you. Drugs cause that too.
I have to respectfully disagree with this one ((((dev)))). Drugs do
not make someone into a cheater. They might lower standards and lower resistance but I do not believe it goes hand in hand.
I believe if someone cheats it is a whole other issue. I know many addicts and alcoholics who would never in a million years cheat on their S/O. It does seem that the people who use coke are more likely to also be cheaters though. I guess the coke helps them to feel good about what they are doing.