say this:
"I am sorry for your situation. I truly am. You made a decision and decisions have consequences. One of those consequences is that you cannot come home here.
Let me know how you are doing and see what tomorrow brings. Things often look better in the morning.
Please know I love you and I am praying for you and for my HP to watch over you.
Take care." And then hang up the phone, turn off the ringer, shut the phone off.. unplug it from the wall.. and do something for yourself.