Originally Posted by
drainedwife 
i am hopnig one day to be strong enough not to care what happens to me,,,,to just be able to say IM DONE--and walk away without ever looking back....
I pray to go for the strength to do that.....someday ill get there.
With me, I found that living with the fear and chaos eventually wore me down to the point where I didn't care any more. I didn't hate him, I didn't love him, I felt nothing at all.
You will know when you're done. You won't have to guess or wonder if you are. So, until you're there, take care of yourself and plan for your future.