I am so sorry - I just posted last night about what I am going thru again. RAH found a receipt that he had dinner with someone and a hotel room key. I called the hotel and the room was in his name.
I have felt like something has been weird for a week and try and talk to him about it.
My husband sounds just like yours does, all he does is get mean and nasty instead of reassuring especially because of what I have gone thru in the past.
I don't know what I am going to do with the info. He also uses only his lap top, and tells me he only has a work cell phone - I don't beleive that. I am keeping my eyes open, but it is just a sick feeling of what I have been thru and don't want to do again.
I am actually thinking of getting a PI - I need the proof, I just can't understand if he wants to go - I have told him go. Why lie to me?