I am an oddball, as a women I was supposed to have children, it was not my calling, I wanted a career and I knew I could not serve two masters. I do not regret my decision, it was right for me.
My happiness comes from within, I have been married two times, both my ex's have passed. I have re-invented myself so many times, yet, I continue to grow. I have realized that a man isn't the answer to my happiness. I am the controller of my happiness, my well-being.
Don't look at what you don't have, look at what you can have, a life, filled with opportunities and love. It is all about attitude, your attitude.
I am now 60 years young, I have myself a cute boy toy, we laugh, we dance, we travel, and we both are happy with each other. We don't live together, and that suits us just fine. Why? Because neither of us is an appendage to each other, we are a reflection of each other...it works for us.
Life is a song worth singing, sing it!