i too am the mom of an addict son.you nor i are a bad mom. i have one more son,navy retired & a daughter that is the manager insurance. two out of 3 turned out fine.i love my addict son but i would never jepertize my other two children for him. your son & mine made the decision to get into drugs. you saw the photo of your son smoking pot. what else he is smoking or doing u you do know. he is a danger to himself, you & to your other children & society. you need to get him off the streets. what makes him the king of your house? you are helping to send him to his grave. i know u are hurting & i do not mean to be so blunt. i am not juding, i am just scared for you & him.you are going to lose him one way or another eithe by prison or death.there is alot of great advise ahead of me. it is your choice to choose what you are going to do.welcome to S.R. there is alot of help here if you will accept it.i am saying a prayer for you & your son.keep coming back.